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Women are seeking out mates who are attentive, affectionate, kind, and caring (and have nicely trimmed hipster beards).
But guess what, men haven’t changed their perspectives at all.
These articles make it seem like the dating world for men is utopian, where all a guy has to do to snag a quality woman is update his Facebook status to “Single”, put on some deodorant, trim his hipster beard, and walk out the front door (and the trimming is optional). If it really was the case that every guy could have his pick of the litter, they would be pairing up.
But, instead, we are witnessing a bizarre situation where guys can pick whoever they want, but they choose not to.
The article was focused on the perspective of women, because that is all that been written about lately, but one comment that appeared frequently was: “What about the men?
”In response to this, I present to you, dear readers, some insights about the troubles with dating, but from the men’s perspective.
One paper explores the contrarian effects of women’s income and marriage sustainability.
If there is going to be a debate about who suffers the most in the dating scene, it should at least incorporate input from both sides.
(A little while back, I posted a piece summarizing a lot of the recent literature, as well as my own opinions, on why dating has become such an impossible chore in recent years.
The article received some thoughtful comments and posts, both here, and on the HG Facebook page.
And why is depression so dissatisfying in relationships?
These two questions are explored in articles appearing in the latest issue of the Journal of Social and Personal Relationships, published by SAGE.